What happened in Vegas… affected all of us

It happened miles away from Florida, more than 2,400 to be accurate. However, the impact of the attack that claimed the lives of 58 people and wounded almost 500 in Las Vegas touched each and every one of the lives of this country’s residents, in one way or another.

According to mental health specialists, that’s not strange. We live as a community and the fact of knowing that so many people died in a matter of minutes, people like you or me, housewives, nurses, teachers, fathers, mothers, sons, daughters, wives, and husbands, could shake anyone and sow fears.

Every time we hear tragic stories like that attack in Las Vegas, and who were the victims, it’s inevitable to find similarities with our life or our own loved ones. It’s impossible not to identify ourselves with one or more of the involved people. That could be the cause of stress, anxiety and even depression, it doesn’t matter how close or far away are you from the epicenter.

This week it happened in Las Vegas, last year, in June, it was Orlando, in 2015 San Bernardino was the scenario, and like those, every violent episode brings questions, fears, and doubts that could affect our mental health, our emotional stability, and our peace.

Experts say that those scars will be there forever. It’s impossible to delete from our memory and our heart the pain that dozens of families have experienced, the anxiety that entire cities have to face after such a tragedy. But rather than fearing what could come next, specialists say, it’s important to prepare for future events.

If you feel that this situation is overwhelming for you, it’s important to take some action:

  • Avoid news exposure at least until you feel that you can handle it.
  • Talk to other people. Express your fears and ask others how are they coping with their own.
  • Consult your physician if you feel like the anxiety and the fear are taking over.
  • Your family and close friends are your best support. It’s healthy to open the conversation with them to listen how are they feeling about this.
  • It helps to discuss the specific situation that causes more anxiety.
  • Look for relaxation methods that you can apply easily and constantly.

Distance doesn’t define who we are and how we feel. The important thing is to be able to face the situations that cause us pain or anguish in the best possible way, and always thinking and knowing that there are ways to get ahead.

 

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What we learned from Irma

There is a saying that from every tragedy we learn, that from the dark moments, always a light is born. Did we learn the lessons from Irma?

The destructive and monstrous hurricane announced its presence, took its time, and came to us, and even though we knew it was coming, many people decided to ignore the warnings of the authorities.

Yes, we have seen dozens of hurricanes, we have heard the warnings and at the end of the day, things are not as bad as they were pictured, right? But how is it possible to know how strong it will beat us? Reality is that we don’t know. Mother nature is always unpredictable.

We know now that the communications and electrical infrastructures around us are vulnerable, and some would say even weak. If you think that has nothing to do with you, it actually has!

When we know that after a storm we could lose basic services like water and electricity, we have to be ready and prepared to face that situation. Some thought that as usually happens, the regular canned food and extra couple of bottles of water would be enough. But they were not.

The long lines in front of almost empty supermarkets are proof of it. The fear of thousands of families for not being able to get their medicines or basic foods for their kids are proof of it.

Irma showed us that enough is not what we think. Irma showed us that optimism should not be confused with neglect. Irma showed us that what at first sight seems to be “just rain”, is not. That rain paralyzed thousands of families, thousands of businesses, thousands of people who had to stay at home, without working and not being able to earn a dime for days. They probably didn’t lose their roofs or their walls, but they lose the services that make those roofs and walls habitable.

Irma showed us that a couple of hours are enough to change the lives of whole cities for months. Irma showed us that we have to be humble before mother nature.

Memory is fragile, but it’s important that we keep these lessons alive and in mind.

 

How’s Your Life Through Social Media?

It’s #SMDay!

Happy Social Media Day! Yes, there is a commemorative day for that. Actually, it’s a global celebration that today completes 8 years. If you think about it, is not crazy. After all, we basically live in two worlds simultaneously: the real one, and the virtual one. The virtual world is the one that helps us to escape from the real one and is a mix of social media platforms.

Thanks to social media we have our loved ones and life friends within the reach of a click. We know now what happened to old classmates we never saw again. We know who’s marrying, divorcing, having babies, dying or welcoming a new life era into this crazy world.

But social media is responsible also for the lack of personal communication between us and the people who live under our own roof. Social media is keeping us far away from our kids, our partners, our parents, and our siblings. A conversation is almost a rarity during a family meal because everybody is busy posting and eating…in that order.

Social media is the heart of the communication around the globe and there is nothing we can do to stop its accelerated and overwhelming growth. What we can do is to be conscious about its use and abuse. There is no reason why we can’t enjoy the benefits of social media and its speed, its immediate effects and its incredible flexibility to find or post content.

Every day is a learning process. Social media offers updates, tools, and developments made to facilitate our lives, not to hinder our interpersonal relationships. Itś in our hands, literally!

We carry the world in our hands, we can connect with whoever we want with a simple click, but we can also use those wonderful technological benefits only when we really need so.

Every app, every platform, and every site are there, always! We make the decision to use them or not, and how.

Let’s celebrate these great tools that modern times and technology are giving us thinking about the relationship we have with social media. We can commemorate this anniversary evaluating how healthy or not is our link to those platforms.

It is #SMDay and we can make it bigger and more important for our own sake. Again, it’s in our hands.

Little Things Make Big Memories

We recently celebrated Mother’s Day for our Senior patients. We wanted not only to thank them for entrusting us to take care of their health, but also to offer them a nice evening, a moment of happiness and joy that sometimes is difficult to have in the middle of the crazy routines we all are immersed on.

We spend weeks planning every detail to make of this one, a beautiful event. The idea was to show our appreciation and love with little things that together would make a great memory for all of us.

Well, we ended up receiving the presents and the gifts, because every single person who attended our Mother’s Day Celebration brought a big smile, the best attitude and the lovely intention to spend a couple of hours with us. They gave us the gift of their presence and their joy…they made our day!

Sometimes is difficult to appreciate little things that can make a big difference in someone’s life. We take for granted moments, people, situations and feelings, and reality is that we don’t even take the time to enjoy those things, but our wonderful guests at this beautiful celebration knew exactly why they were there. They were excited about the music, a simple balloon ripped the smile out of some of them, some muffins and pastries made them happy, and you can’t imagine how long the line was for a massage!

They probably have all that at home, or they could if they would want to, but what we realized is that all together, at the same time, in the same space, was what made the magic.

Hopefully new friendships arose from that event, and some stress was liberated, or maybe someone forgot a problem at least for those hours. If we accomplished at least one of those things, we can say we did good! To all the patients, their relatives and friends who brought them, to the new faces that visited us for the first time, and to all our great staff, Thank You! One more time, we confirmed that we are serving a great community!.